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Ostatnio dzieciaki, jak same powiedzia?y, wsta?y lew? nog?. Tylko by?a ich czw?rka, a tych marudnych dw?jka. Pod wiecz?r my?la?am, ?e… mam ochot? wyj?? z domu i nie wraca?. I nagle m?j wzrok pad? na ?wiecznik, co podsun??o mi genialny pomys?!Kolacja przy ?wiecach – jak uspokoi? dzieci.
Jest to przyk?ad kulinarny, bo to przecie? moja dzia?ka, ale uwa?am, ?e takie podej?cie dzia?a wyj?tkowo skutecznie w innych dziedzinach. Gdy damy dzieciom okazj?, do poczucia si? dojrzalszymi ni? by? mo?e s?, one to doceni? i nam si? odwdzi?cz?.
Pami?tam, jak moja babcia zniech?cona poganianiem mnie do picia w ci?gu dnia, przelewa?a mi w ko?cu wod? z kubka do kieliszka. Ach jak ja to uwielbia?am! Przypuszczam, ?e wiele litr?w wody wypi?am dzi?ki temu naczyniu!
Kolacja przy ?wiecach – jak uspokoi? dzieci
Nasze dzieciaki marudzi?y i co chwil? si? obija?y, k??ci?y, wpada?y na co? i spada?y z r??nych mebli. Jednak w chwili, gdy zaproponowa?am im kolacj? przy ?wiecach, w??czy?am Milesa Davisa to nie mog?am si? odgoni? od propozycji pomocy! Ka?de z nich chcia?o nakrywa? i przygotowywa?. Kolacja up?yn??a w sielskim nastroju, potem poszli?my czyta? – po dw?ch rozdzia?ach “Bzdurek” Artura Andrusa (serdecznie polecam) zostawi?am dzieciaki same – bo przecie? s? takie dojrza?e, ?e same grzecznie usn?, i to si? sta?o!
Uwa?am, ?e takie zaskakuj?ce ‘podniesienie standard?w’ powoduje, ?e ka?dy chce udowodni?, i? na to zas?uguje. Korzystajmy z tego, traktuj?c dzieci jak partner?w, do?wiadczenie pokazuje, ?e warto. Ile? to razy przerzucenie odpowiedzialno?ci za?atwi?o problem (np. odk?d Stasiek sam nastawia budzik i wstaje, poranki s? o wiele ?atwiejsze, ni? gdy to ja musia?am wstawa? i go wielokrotnie wyci?ga? z ???ka). Podobnie by?o z bezproblemowymi ?niadaniami!
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